Boys. Boys. Boys

Life has its issues, but those of 99.9% of teen girls revolves around some boy (roughly). One of the downfalls of being attractive or not so attractive even, is that guys sometimes don't get the "I don't want you... EVER" picture until you totally scorn their pride. Males are complex creatures. They're either overly emotional and get attached way too quickly or they treat you like a thing of the past after the second date, when they're the one who hounded you down for weeks until they got your number in the first place. (Don't be mistaken, I la-la-love boys.)But c'mon son.

On a more serious note..

Sex. I understand that for some it's a very uncomfortable topic to discuss, even for those who are currently/have been involved in sexual relations. Sex is normal, but the problem is the difference in how we (guys & gals) view it. Guys get praised for sleeping around while females are considered whores. Look at the emphasis on male sexual dominance in just about every advertisement both print and film, music video, ect. ect. ect.. Are we so ass backwards in 2009 that we still submit to the primitive double standard? How about putting aside labels and all just being "smart." I'm saddened by the fact that in most instances, young females are ONLY encouraged to abstain from having sex, while males are are given options to be safe.. HELLO.. they can't do it alone! Is it wrong that I too am a sexual being? I am NOT saying for females to go out and screw everything but this is reality .

-Be safe
peace & light, Sade'